Quote From: dustyrose9I'm a 20 year old wife as well. I know how hard it can be to manage sex and taking care of the kids and the house and everything else that we have chosen at such a young age. Possibly part of your problem with sex is that you are stressed. Stress decreases sex drive. And believe me i know that being sucha young wife and mother is STRESSFUL! But sex is important to your relationship. ( at the risk of sounding like Dr. Phil) It brings a close-ness and togetherness between you that nothing else can. It's like for that little bit of time, there is nothing in the world more important than the 2 of you. and having that connection is so important to maintaining a healthy strong marriage.
I know what you are going throught I am to a mother of four and I am 26 and have been married to my husband for almost four yrs. I take care of all the bills and kids and cleaning and cooking and ariens and appointments and on top of that I go to work at 1am to 4am. My husband thinks about sex all the time and talks about it all the time. We almost always get into fight about not having sex and if it is not that were fighting about then were fighting about bills and money. I to have a bad habit of pushing my husband away when he is trying to love on me cause I think then he is going to turn it into something sexual instead of just cuddling. He always tells me that their somthing wrong with me or he says he never gets it at all. We have sex once a week. when we first got togther we had sex every night. So just to let you know it is not just you that feels this way
chelsea
