Quote From: ceders2Just wanted to write and give you my thoughts on this, if you don't mind that is!!
You've only been trying for 3 months to me thats not long at all so don't go worrying yourself too much about this. It will happen when it is suppose to happen, believe me.
My hubby had a very low sperm count and he had been told many years ago that it would be very unlikely that he would ever be able to father any children. So we just got on with life and we did try on and off for many years to have a baby but nothing happened, but also we were trying too hard at times, so much so that we were not having any fun anymore.
So, we stopped trying and just got back to enjoying each other and getting on with our lives, thinking that it was just going to be the two of us. And that was never going to be a problem for us, cause we didn't get married all those years ago to just have babies we got married because we wanted to be together for the rest of our lives.
Anyway, one day out of the blue we did get pregnant and now we have a beautiful 3 year old daughter, Stephanie. To us she is our Beautiful Gift from God. We have been truly blessed.
So, all I can say to you is to stop trying and go back to enjoying your time with your hubby and just let nature take care of it's self. And if you are healthy then it will happen. And please relax and don't worry. Hope this has helped in some way, please TAKE CARE. LOVE KELLY.
Easier said than done Kelly.
I have been trying for three months with no success, but seeing everyone else with babies (including my sister-in-law who is pregnant), combined with my age, weight, my partner's low sperm count just add to the frustration and worry that it will just never happen - and we want children so badly. It is just very hard to relax and just let nature take its course. My biological clock doesn't have years left on it. I just wish there was something we could do.
