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March 4, 2006, 4:05 pm PST

03/03 “Stop Ruining Your Child!”

Quote From: mischif12

I am a nurse in a psychiatric hospital that treats children as young as four and adolescents. While some of these kids are mentally ill. Many of them have what's called Conduct disorders which is a fancy term for brat and a way to get insurance companies to pay for the hospital stay. Dr. Phil right about one thing society and the school just will not put up with kids like this. What happens is they go to school go berserk when they don't get what they want and start hitting others, scratching biting and even destroying property. Most school don't even call the parents anymore. Police bring these kids as young as 5 to our facility in hand-cuffs on 72 hour hold for being a danger to them selves or others. If you don't think a 5 year could dangerous you have tried to hold one during one of these fits. Parents come to out hospital angry and upset because they can't by law take their children home for 3 days. Many can't take them home for a week or more because as long as they are displaying this kind of behavior the courts still see them as dangerous. After a week or so in a highly disciplined environment these kids do settle down and eventually go home, But they are often in the hospital again month after month. I have talked to parents about commando parenting and those who try it usually have pretty good results.  Well I'm off to work now but I know I'll see at least one like this come through the doors today. So Sad 

  

  

Mischif 

I work in a residential facility and a lot of our children come from a juvenile place before hand.  We are their LAST chance before something like prison!  It's so sad to see these kids go through that and it's a veyr stressful job for me.  I think that I get so frustrated by the kids at work that I come home and take it out on my kids!  I've thought about calling the Dr. Phil show so many times but I just never do it!  My son is 9 and has ADHD/ODD, Severe Sleep Apnea, Aggression Problems and Asthma.  Then I have a 6 yr old daughter that he is so mean to.  I find myself saying very mean things to my son and telling him if he keeps it up he can go live with his Dad!  He gets all upset and cries that he doesn't want to go live at Dads.  We just got him into therapy and he's going to see a new doctor for his meds but sometimes I just get so frustrated and I dont' know what to do with him!  there are times that I wonder if I send him to a residential facility if it will help him and then other times I don't think that's what he needs.  I'm just at a loss with him.  I love him with all my heart but he is such a challenging child!  IF anyone has ANY advice for me, I would love to hear it.  I want to stop losing my temper with him, I want to be able to go do more stuff with him, I WANT US TO BE HAPPY! 

 


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