Replies to '08/08 Cheaters'

 Its not the other womens fault , the husband cheats .... it is the husbands problem . I do agree the spouse should lay the blame where the blame is due... on their spouse . Stop looking at the other person involved . There are alot of factors in a case. The other person is not married to you , blame your spouse !!!!

This girl knew about me the whole time. She harrassed me for several weeks after this ended. I was at walmart grocery shopping with my 6yr old daughter and she followed me around the store saying things like ..I f$$$$$ your husband and I will do it again. Finally I turned around adnd told her to leave us alone and she said a lot of things that I really don't think that my 6yr old needed to hear. As far as she was concerned, there were not any problems. I didn't need to get her in this. Needless to say, I tried to act like the better person and I ended up leaving with my child in tears. That alone makes me want to ring the girls neck. I am not only blaming her but it is people like her that make this world the place that it is sometimes.  My husband was more in the wrong than she was but it was the fact that she had to act like an idoit that makes me sick with revenge. I just should have clarified that in my original message. I don't know about other people out there but my child is the most important thing in my life and that girl caused her a lot of pain. For weeks after word everytime he went to work she would cry because she thought that he was going to see that girl. Now, do you think that that was really needed?

you have no idea what happened. That stupid girl knew about me and cause a lot of pain for my daughter. My kid was not informed of the situatuion until miss. thing thought that she should be. Every situation is different so until you walk a mile in my shoes YOU DON'T KNOW.