Replies to 'Abuse'

Please consider joining Al-Anon, he is exhibiting typical Alcoholic behavior. 

Al-Anon can help you understand and give you moral support. Please join, NOW! 

your husband is being abusive. he is training oyur daughters how to be abusive.  he is settlignt hem up to be abusers. they will never be happy unless you show them that no one deserves to be abused, put down, called names. they may see life as a victim or abuser. meanign that you are either one of the other andithey've seen you be abused and dont wnat that so they chose abuser because in thier minds it is the only  other option. please get some pychological help so you can raise your self esteem. your h makes over 5 tiimes you do there is not reason for you to spilt the bills hald and half. he is trying to gain financail control of you even more. he is trying to make sure that you cant save up to leave and be on your own without him. do not let him. get some theraphy so you reconginze the true woman you are. one who is beatiful and deserves respect and love. one    who  knows that she is a goo dmother. if he  leaves let him. that is his choice. please be careful with the kids though. if he  leaves with thembe aware that he  may move his abuse onto them. let him go but keep the kids. this will give oyu a chance to show them that they can be  happy and not see abuse. that you dont have to be a victim or an abuser.  get a plan a safety plan for hte day to   leave and a long term one. YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH. check into alanon.

You CAN make it on your own! 

  

It may not be easy, but you CAN do it. 

  

There have been MANY MANY women, some even in worse situations than your, they MADE IT OUT! 

  

They movedon to a BETTER LIFE. 

  

Get a PLAN! 

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