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March 6, 2006, 6:34 am PST
won't committ
Quote From: luvlymoe1Hi! I am Nikki I' ve been in a relationship with this guy for over five years. He is 41yrs old and does not seem to want to settle down. I want to be in a serious relationship that eventually leads to marriage. He stated that he would marry when he turned 40 but nothing happend at the time when he told me this he turned 40. I' am no longer seeing him but would love to share the rest of my life with him I do truly love him very much. We have amazing sex and conversation he is one of my best friend and no matter what we go through we also seem to find our way back to one another. I let him go knowing that if it is meant to be it will be and if not I will be hurt but will move on. What should I do?  Never beg a man to marry you. there is a reason. maybe he's just not into you. Maybe he wants the freedom of being single. Maybe he has had a bad divorce situation? Maybe he likes it the way it is, why change it. Women are so anxious to get married, you scare men off. If he don't want marriage and you do, move on and find a man that DOES want to get married. stop wasting time.
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