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March 6, 2006, 6:31 am PST

no sex

Quote From: jenoc99

Yes your married life will be like this if this is what you settle for!!  

When you say he doesn't want sex as often as you, what do you mean- how often do you actually have sex?  

Also, have you tried to deny him when he does want sex? Just give it a try and follow through with your "no"... just roll over and go to sleep!! Payback!! Why do you allow him to just use you as a form of relief, yet when you are in the mood to be intimate, he shuts you out? Not fair!  

You won't get him to compromise because he's a man who is full of excuses. Please know this has nothing to do with you!! It is about him and his own deep seated issues.  

As for a solution, have you discussed trying natural supplements that could boost his sex drive? Atleast talk about it, what would be the harm? When you are young and healthy, he shouldn't need viagra at this point, but supplements are for all ages. i wish you well! 

This is something that is not right. something is up. And i would be darn sure to figure it out BEFORE getting married. Don't jump too fast. Internet porn has taken over a lot of mens sex lives. They prefer to look at that and masterbate and then can't perform as needed with their spouse. I don't advise mariage until it is cleared up . He has to be honest. Men have a hard time fessing up to these things. persue it.
 
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March 14, 2006, 12:50 pm PST

The Tables have turned....

Quote From: jenoc99

Yes your married life will be like this if this is what you settle for!!  

When you say he doesn't want sex as often as you, what do you mean- how often do you actually have sex?  

Also, have you tried to deny him when he does want sex? Just give it a try and follow through with your "no"... just roll over and go to sleep!! Payback!! Why do you allow him to just use you as a form of relief, yet when you are in the mood to be intimate, he shuts you out? Not fair!  

You won't get him to compromise because he's a man who is full of excuses. Please know this has nothing to do with you!! It is about him and his own deep seated issues.  

As for a solution, have you discussed trying natural supplements that could boost his sex drive? Atleast talk about it, what would be the harm? When you are young and healthy, he shouldn't need viagra at this point, but supplements are for all ages. i wish you well! 

I have tried turning the tables........for the last week or so, I have been denying him.  I didn't ask for it once for about 3 days, then he tried to initiate something and I denied him.  It was like a 180 change!  He wanted it a few times a day, and I stood by my "NO".  Then about a week went by and I couldn't hold out anymore.  The sex was great.....short....but great.  It definitely worked but I don't want to have to play games with him for the rest of my life.  It's a step in the right direction but where do I go from here.  Thanks for your great idea!!!!!!
 


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