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March 6, 2006, 1:11 pm PST

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I don't know if Dr. Phil caught it or not, but at the end of the discussion... when Dr. Phil said they need to do something before they both did something they'd regret... the cop shot his wife such a look... it made the hair stand up on the back of my neck. He thinks he is smart enough to get rid of her and get away with it. You could see that he had manipulated this whole situation. He fully expected to have Dr. Phil in his corner from the beginning... His coming to the show was just a ploy to "show" people that "he" was working on the problems and it's all her fault. I'm worried for her and her kids.

Another characteristic of people who have NPD, they care what people think, sans their family. They don't care what their wife thinks, they don't care what their children think of them, but them do care what their co-workers thinks. They have a warped sense of success. Sinden did say that Jim would say anything to make her look bad and I believe her. He most likely has found that he loves the brotherhood sympathy of "poor Jim" from his co-workers or anyone that would listen. He has to appear to be the better parent at all cost, in order to fuel his need to be that "great guy" he's conned everyone into believing. I agree, this entire appearance on Dr. Phil is just a ploy in his grand plan. I believe Sinden entirely and specifically at the being of the show after the first video reel...it was all news to her. When NPD's are backed into a corner they create a diversion and this entire show was one big diversion for Jim.

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vikie58

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March 6, 2006, 4:53 pm PST

Scary...

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I don't know if Dr. Phil caught it or not, but at the end of the discussion... when Dr. Phil said they need to do something before they both did something they'd regret... the cop shot his wife such a look... it made the hair stand up on the back of my neck. He thinks he is smart enough to get rid of her and get away with it. You could see that he had manipulated this whole situation. He fully expected to have Dr. Phil in his corner from the beginning... His coming to the show was just a ploy to "show" people that "he" was working on the problems and it's all her fault. I'm worried for her and her kids.

I have to agree that Jim looked very intimidating, and I am aware of many instances that officers abuse their power for selfish reasons.....

It seems that in those cases, their egos are so demented, they don't recognize this as an obsession......that is when they abuse that very power to cover up crimes, kill, and control...

I believe there are 2 sides to this story, as there are in all stories, but, Jim seems to be VERY manipulative and has learned to use the system for his own needs......

I hope Dr. Phill can get them some professional help before Sinden becomes a statistic!!!

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hip2hyppa

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March 6, 2006, 5:02 pm PST

SPOT ON!!

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I don't know if Dr. Phil caught it or not, but at the end of the discussion... when Dr. Phil said they need to do something before they both did something they'd regret... the cop shot his wife such a look... it made the hair stand up on the back of my neck. He thinks he is smart enough to get rid of her and get away with it. You could see that he had manipulated this whole situation. He fully expected to have Dr. Phil in his corner from the beginning... His coming to the show was just a ploy to "show" people that "he" was working on the problems and it's all her fault. I'm worried for her and her kids.

She does'nt have a clue how much trouble she's in with this man. Hopefully he will be able to restrain himself now that he's been on national tv. Maybe she'll have a chance and she and her kids will be safe......maybe.....but what if he decides to kill them and himself and it is completely over and he will die thinking he won after all.....just like David Brame out of Tacoma Wa.

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March 6, 2006, 5:24 pm PST

Bone Chilling

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I don't know if Dr. Phil caught it or not, but at the end of the discussion... when Dr. Phil said they need to do something before they both did something they'd regret... the cop shot his wife such a look... it made the hair stand up on the back of my neck. He thinks he is smart enough to get rid of her and get away with it. You could see that he had manipulated this whole situation. He fully expected to have Dr. Phil in his corner from the beginning... His coming to the show was just a ploy to "show" people that "he" was working on the problems and it's all her fault. I'm worried for her and her kids.

I noticed that look too. A subtle but bone chilling threat. Too bad Dr. Phil didn't notice it.

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March 6, 2006, 6:57 pm PST

03/06 Love, Lies and the Law

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I don't know if Dr. Phil caught it or not, but at the end of the discussion... when Dr. Phil said they need to do something before they both did something they'd regret... the cop shot his wife such a look... it made the hair stand up on the back of my neck. He thinks he is smart enough to get rid of her and get away with it. You could see that he had manipulated this whole situation. He fully expected to have Dr. Phil in his corner from the beginning... His coming to the show was just a ploy to "show" people that "he" was working on the problems and it's all her fault. I'm worried for her and her kids.

I'm with you, and told my husband this during the commercial break. Well said.

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Bull's Eye

Scary...

SPOT ON!!

Bone Chilling

03/06 Love, Lies and the Law