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March 6, 2006, 8:40 am PST
its about him not you.
Quote From: boop40walking egg shells today worrying about what mood he he will be in when he comes home from work he was hateful this morning about money but it was ok that his friends where here yesterday when i went to work he hs no problem giving them money or feeding them drinking buddy's come before me there is something that you must understand about abuse. its not about you. its about him. the abuse is because of how he feels about himself or soemthing else that has to do with him. its because of his issues. you will never be able to do enough or be good enough because its not about you. you cant do anything to fix his behavoir. you do what you want to do with yoursefl and your life. you are who you can control. stop trying ot please him. it is an impossible task that will leave you exhausted and with noo self esteem.
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