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March 6, 2006, 4:46 pm PST
educate yourself.. and get aplan
Quote From: bonnieloveI'm on my second marriage (21 yrs in May). Every time we get into an arguement, he gives me the silent treatment. My problem isn't so much my H, but I was an only child, being adopted. Both of my adoptive parents are now gone, but I have inheritated all their antiques. My H & I have a 5 BR home, which is pretty much filled with my parents antiques. I really don't want to sell them, & I don't have funds for a storage. (Besides alot of the antiques is furniture & I'd be afraid it would get wet). I truly want to divorce my H, but I feel as thro I'm trap. I'm pretty sure I have CHF & Fibromayalgia. Not too many places will hire me if I tell them that. I can't afford any medical help, as we have no medical insurance. I don't know where to start as far as getting on my own. I feel as through if I get rid of my parents antiques I will betray them. Where do I go for help? Being in my 50's, I'm scared to death of becoming homeless. he is witholding and it is emotional abuse. pleas check out drirene.com. it describes emotinal abuse. there are alos other websites that talk about it as well. there is a list here on this boaurd about that. if you dont want ot sell them dont. but you dont neccesary have to keep everypievce if YOU dont want to. there are ways to get help. espceaily for the disabled as well as people with low incomes. have you looked into medicaid or medicare? have you looked into working from home? start getting on your own by making 2 plans one for short term the other for long term. figure out the basics first.. food shelter.. then figureout the rest around that. what od you mean you h isn't so much your problem? go to local agencies around you. church , gov't schools.
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