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March 12, 2006, 12:43 pm PST
um, I don't think that's it....
Quote From: rockmeTo be honest, you need to make him feel comfortable. It seems to me that he may have insecurities when it comes to performing in bed. Does he have to have sex with the lights OFF? Could it be that he is not comfortable with his body, and therefore he does not want to share it with you? Do you worship his manhood, and tell him it's the most beautiful thing you have ever seen? Treat it like a God. Tell him you love his body, and kiss him from head to toe... using your lips and tongue. Then, whip out a can of Reddi-Whip, Hershey's Syrup, and Marachino Cherries, and make a "banana-split" out of his banana. He will watch you play, get excited, and watch you eat and lick him off, and it will bring him to ecstacy. That is what you want! Make him so self-confident that he will want to have sex anywhere, and anytime you want to. Be creative in bed, and the rewards will never end.
Good luck! He's not self-consious at all about his body, he's all for sex, all the time, it's just full of limitations. He want's me to take the lead. Sex toys and sex play seem to intimidate him. He is horny all the time but I'm starting to lose interest in even trying because a couple minutes of akward forplay followed by sex that isn't really comfortable (I'm not at all warmed up and then he doesn't pay attention to what's the most comfortable rhythm for me... it's the "jack-hammer" style) isn't something I can look forward to. I've tried being indirect and responding noticeably pleased when he does get it right, I've tried being completely direct and just telling him what I need but nothing works. This is entirely new to me. I've never had this problem in other relationships.
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