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March 10, 2006, 8:53 pm PST

Narcolepsy

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HI, if there is anyone out there who reads this i would love to hear back from you on this subject of Narcolepsy. My daughter is 14 years old and has been told she has Narcolepsy. We have been through 2 sleep studies and many doctors to confirm this. She also has the cataplexy. She has zero self esteem. Wishes she could did in a car accident because she see's NO hope for her future. It is so hard to hear her talk like this. It breaks my heart. She often speaks of just wanting to die, doesnt really have many friends, not even one close friend due to the fact that she cant stay awake to have someone over. She struggles to get thru school. Comes home and sleeps thru dinner, i have to wake her up so she can eat something and do her homework. Believe it or not inspite of this she works very hard at her grades and even got a 4.0 this last trimester. We have tried diff. meds and we cant find anything that she doesnt have a strong reaction to. Is there any advice to help her with someone who suffers with Narcolepsy? She wont laugh because she doesn't want to fall down in front of her classmates, she is always so sad.   I have called all over our state in Oregon to find support groups but we have none.   Thank you for your time    

Have you checked into www.talkaboutsleep.com? Your story sounds familiar, so I think you might have visited the website.  But if not, please check it out.  There is a plethora of useful information on there including Narcolepsy message boards and chat rooms.  Maybe you and your daughter,  can visit it together.  It would be extremely helpful for her to "talk" with others who are in a similar boat.  I have Narcolepsy and it has helped me tremendously!  Hope you can check it out.  Good luck!  

 
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March 11, 2006, 7:47 am PST

narcolepsy

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HI, if there is anyone out there who reads this i would love to hear back from you on this subject of Narcolepsy. My daughter is 14 years old and has been told she has Narcolepsy. We have been through 2 sleep studies and many doctors to confirm this. She also has the cataplexy. She has zero self esteem. Wishes she could did in a car accident because she see's NO hope for her future. It is so hard to hear her talk like this. It breaks my heart. She often speaks of just wanting to die, doesnt really have many friends, not even one close friend due to the fact that she cant stay awake to have someone over. She struggles to get thru school. Comes home and sleeps thru dinner, i have to wake her up so she can eat something and do her homework. Believe it or not inspite of this she works very hard at her grades and even got a 4.0 this last trimester. We have tried diff. meds and we cant find anything that she doesnt have a strong reaction to. Is there any advice to help her with someone who suffers with Narcolepsy? She wont laugh because she doesn't want to fall down in front of her classmates, she is always so sad.   I have called all over our state in Oregon to find support groups but we have none.   Thank you for your time    
 Hi creative. The last message you recieved was by one called sleepyfrog. I am a member of the same message board as sleepyfrog. Talk about sleep is a great place to visit! For those old and young with all sleep disorders and for those that want to learn more or just ask question! This message board AND chat room has helped me come out of 15 yrs of denial! I also have Narcolepsy with cataplexy and a few other things! I started having signs when I was about 15 but I did not get any answers until I was 20. Narcolepsy was not very well known at that time!  Visit and join our sit and you will see what bonding really means! All of these folks on this site are very warm hearted People and Are the ONLY ones that know what your daughter is going through!!!! talk about sleep also has a message board and chat fot Nacoleptic under 30....This will help her alot with her self esteme! One piece of advice from one with Narcolepsy. Have her do her research. Inorder to understand herself she must first understand her condition! Denial is always a stage we all go through ( iwent through it for 15 yrs) So the sooner she faces this The sooner her life will become less complex! I wish you the best of luck and hope to see you on our site....Noddingmom
 
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March 11, 2006, 4:28 pm PST

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HI, if there is anyone out there who reads this i would love to hear back from you on this subject of Narcolepsy. My daughter is 14 years old and has been told she has Narcolepsy. We have been through 2 sleep studies and many doctors to confirm this. She also has the cataplexy. She has zero self esteem. Wishes she could did in a car accident because she see's NO hope for her future. It is so hard to hear her talk like this. It breaks my heart. She often speaks of just wanting to die, doesnt really have many friends, not even one close friend due to the fact that she cant stay awake to have someone over. She struggles to get thru school. Comes home and sleeps thru dinner, i have to wake her up so she can eat something and do her homework. Believe it or not inspite of this she works very hard at her grades and even got a 4.0 this last trimester. We have tried diff. meds and we cant find anything that she doesnt have a strong reaction to. Is there any advice to help her with someone who suffers with Narcolepsy? She wont laugh because she doesn't want to fall down in front of her classmates, she is always so sad.   I have called all over our state in Oregon to find support groups but we have none.   Thank you for your time    

Hi...if you or your daughter want to communicate with others with Narcolepsy please visit www.talkaboutsleep.com there is an under 30 section and regular both welcome all ages though.  

  

Narcoleptic Network runs the above and is a great source of information and understanding. I sincerely hope that Dr. Phil considers a show especially since March 27-April 2 is Sleep Awareness Week. 

  

Rio~ 

 
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June 21, 2006, 9:52 pm PDT

Narcoleptic and 44

Quote From: creative6

HI, if there is anyone out there who reads this i would love to hear back from you on this subject of Narcolepsy. My daughter is 14 years old and has been told she has Narcolepsy. We have been through 2 sleep studies and many doctors to confirm this. She also has the cataplexy. She has zero self esteem. Wishes she could did in a car accident because she see's NO hope for her future. It is so hard to hear her talk like this. It breaks my heart. She often speaks of just wanting to die, doesnt really have many friends, not even one close friend due to the fact that she cant stay awake to have someone over. She struggles to get thru school. Comes home and sleeps thru dinner, i have to wake her up so she can eat something and do her homework. Believe it or not inspite of this she works very hard at her grades and even got a 4.0 this last trimester. We have tried diff. meds and we cant find anything that she doesnt have a strong reaction to. Is there any advice to help her with someone who suffers with Narcolepsy? She wont laugh because she doesn't want to fall down in front of her classmates, she is always so sad.   I have called all over our state in Oregon to find support groups but we have none.   Thank you for your time    
    I hope that you and your daughter are very close.  It is very difficult having narcolepsy.  I was just diagnosed.  I am on a cpap machine every night. I am on Ritalin because Provigil is too expensive and I don't have any insurance.  I had all the symptoms but I thought it was just lack of sleep because I was working two jobs to make ends meet.  I had a small fender bender because I fell asleep, then I had a big accident because I was not paying attention to my driving. I panicked and caused a three car accident. If I had been more aware I would have hit the brake instead of the accelerator.   Just let your daughter know that she is not alone. Hopefuly there will be a cure.  It is nice to know that even a normal 14 yr old can have this strange condition.  My parents are trying to get me to get another part time job but I am terrified that I will get into another accident if I have two jobs .    
 


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