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March 9, 2006, 7:56 am PST

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Quote From: kladis20

my name is amanda and i am 20 years old .  my fiance and i just had our first child about ten months ago.  during my pregnancy i had really bad "all the time sickness" and my sex drive was non exsitent.  i hurt all the time and felt like i was going to be sick every time i moved my body.  However i forced my self to have sex at least once a week if possible because i felt bad for not being able to plessure my fiance.  now that we have had the baby i still don't really have a sex drive.  i don't know what to do sex just is not appealing to me much these days.  if any one can give me some adivice i would love to hear it.   

  

thanks  

  

amanda 

sometimes women turn into mommy's once a child enters the picture and they forget that they are women too. They put their needs and their partners needs aside to focus on the baby. But you were a couple first, before the baby came along. 

  

You need to make time for the two of you. A night out once a week, like a date nite. And the rest of the week make sure the baby has a set routine, so that when he/she goes down for the nite, you and your partner can have some alone time. 

  

You need to nurture your relationship with your man, as much as with your child...they are both demanding and need attention or they will fail. ~Red 

 


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