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March 9, 2006, 10:03 am PST

Differing Sex Drives

Quote From: gesse31

i understand things come up,but my wife has not had sex with me for 6 months now,and im pretty pissed about it.she had surgery on her knee in september,but shesback to normal,she cheated on me for a long time,supposedly its over but after 6 months i doubt it is,i love my wife and kids but shes 28 im 32 and i have needs as well,divorce is not my plan,but i guess alls fair in love and war.
I know some of what you are going through.  My advice is to get out of there, before you do something that you regret.  Leaving your kids is very tough, I know firsthand, but honestly you need to be healthy.  From there you can handle emotions better and get a decent life strategy.  Otherwise you will continue to be pissed, do something you regret, and take that much longer to heal.  What you decide to do from here on out will have a huge impact on your life, either positively or negatively.  It is not fair to be in this place, I know.  Good luck       
 
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March 9, 2006, 2:01 pm PST

love and war?

Quote From: gesse31

i understand things come up,but my wife has not had sex with me for 6 months now,and im pretty pissed about it.she had surgery on her knee in september,but shesback to normal,she cheated on me for a long time,supposedly its over but after 6 months i doubt it is,i love my wife and kids but shes 28 im 32 and i have needs as well,divorce is not my plan,but i guess alls fair in love and war.
Why do you feel like it's war?  What did you do the period of time she cheated, or did you find out it lasted a long time?
 


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