As most peopl im not perfect,we went out i got her pregnant.I was in the navy and came home on weekends,well she wouldnt open up emotionally i found someoneelse in virginia,so i broke it off with my pregnant gir friend.to make a long story short,she was cheating on me before after and during our pregnancy,she wasnt sure who fathered the baby me or a 48 yr old married man.Well we got together when my son was 8 months old and i married her and she never stopped trying to get this married guy and she doesnt see if he loved her as much as she thinks in 10 yrs he would have left his wife.I love her but all we do is fight she lies,and still wont tell me what i see,The clues are allways there.I am moody but most of it is because of her emotional coldness and the worst part is it affects our kids because im pissed all the time.