Replies to 'Differing Sex Drives'

I have thought about the whole getting her drunk thing probably more times then i should. I have never had a girlfriend say anything about size to me of course to my wife i am huge but then again she is a virgin so hate to say it but her opinion there doesn't count. She will not go on birth controll because she has heard about some side effects that worry her. i have tryed to talk her into marridge counseling and she refuses. I have suggested therapy and she won't do it. I feel like i am married to the most stubborn woman on the planet and we have only been married 5 monthes. I can't really even get an annulment because she has no place to stay other then wih me. I feel like i am totally trapped sometimes. I have played the bad guy sometimes and will just outright refuse to give her any attention when i start getting upset sometimes. We have spent sleepless nights with me on the couch in the other room and her in bed both crying because i will refuse to get close to her. It is so annoying there are a lot of things i can do and there are a lot of tools at my disposal for many many different things and i have learned how to cope with many different situations but she is just flat out slowly driving me crazy because she refuses to accept any help that i can offer weather its my help or me pointing her the right way for help she just refuses to accept and if she does not start to change this will be one short marrige I will find a way to get an annulment I have NO plans on just waiting some indefinante amount of time to have sex with a woman i married.