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March 15, 2006, 9:18 am PST

Differing Sex Drives

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    If your husband is 23 I will assume you are also young. My husband and I are in our 40's, not old but maybe more seasoned. So I'll ask. Does he treat you well? Seem to care about you . Do you have kids? Do you think the stress of being "responsible" for keeping a paycheck going or maybe working a job he hates could be  the problem. You may be on to something with the chemical imbalance theory.  It takes a lot of energy to cope with and hide undiagnosed depression. 

   I have told my husband to go ahead and divorce me if he really wants to hear a judge laugh his butt off......"Your Honor, she doesn't cheat on me, drink, do drugs, gamble or shop our money away. She does take care of most of the responsibilities at home, takes good care of our kids, stands by me in the rough spots, and puts out at least once a week whether shes interrested in doing it or not (sometimes just to keep me from pouting like a 5 year old.) and mowes the yard once a week in the summer so I don't  have to and mowing our yard requires a tractor........but I still want out because she wont act like a porn star every night.  PU-LEESE! Wouldn't you laugh?  

    If you love somebody and are without -a-doubt committed you accept the things you can't change sometimes and go on with life. Would you be better off without. Only if sex means more to you than love. 

First of all, my husband does not hate his job. sex does not mean more to me than love. i do everything i can to meet my husband's needs, and he should want to do the same for me. I know he loves me, and maybe with counseling, things will start to improve.One last thing, i am so sick and tired of these women on these message boards complaining about their husbands wanting sex so much. if he loves you and treats you well and and takes care of you, then why not compromise and have sex more. i know sometimes its hard if u have a stressful job or you have children, i am also a mother. but at the end of the day, when the kids are asleep and its just you and your husband, why not make love.
 


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