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Quote From: attackmom

I have been with the same man for over 4 years.  We have lived together for over 3 years.  I have a 15 yr old daughter from a previous marriage and he has a 14 yr old daughter from a previous relationship.  He is a great guy but just won't commit to marriage.  He has been in several long term relationships but has NEVER been married.  Pretty much we have a good relationship but lately I have begun to feel that he is marriage phobic and won't ever get married.  We have discussed this and he doesn't really know why he doesn't want to get married.  He actually said "Why rush it?" I guess I would really like some advise on what to do in this situation.