Replies to 'Ready for Marriage?'

Some people say soul mates exist, others dont' agree...  

In my opinion, I really don't know if "soul mates" exist, because to be honest, when I met my now husband, we became fast friends- and our love grew slowly over time. There was no instant soul mate feeling, although now I feel that we are soul mates, and that if we hadn't met one another when we did that we would have eventually met each other somewhere else, because we were meant to be together.  

My advice to you is that if you are questioning if he is the one for you, then he isn't the one! If your goal is to be in a relationship that will lead to marriage and a family, and you are questioning this man, then will you really be happy with him forever? You are right to question where this relationship will go. But, I just don't know if seeking a soul mate is ever going to make you happy, because someone 'better' will always be out there, but you have to be willing to love your mate "warts" and all.