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March 13, 2006, 3:58 pm PST
03/13 Infidelity Aftermath
Quote From: mktoddI was married over 12 years to a cheating husband. I listened to his lies and believed him. I realized that I was better off without him. Not only did he cheat, but he was verbally and physically abusive to me....and the worst part? My children saw it all. I am grateful that I never got a disease from him. And now, away from him for over 1 1/2 years, I am happy without him. My kids are happier and healthier, and I am dating a great guy who doesnt treat me horribly.
I think Danielle is selfish. I know I dont know her, but some of her comes across on tv. I saw the same look in her eyes I saw with my ex....and she has this look as if she didnt care and was there to flaunt what she did. I am not saying Chris is perfect...but she was well aware of what she was doing to him, and well aware she was in the wrong. I was with my husband for 20 years, I caught him 10 years ago, and should of thrown him out then, but I loved him and wanted my marriage with our 2 kids. Here I am again but I found out he's been with other women numerous times, and as far as I'm concerned he likely never stopped, I could not except this, we've been separated for 6 months, I'm fine and made this decision, he will not leave me alone, now has me talked into counselling. The problem is I don't love him anymore, there's been so much damage, I can't trust him, and I wish he would move on, and leave me alone. I need to get strong again, I feel like he's manipulating me every time he comes over. You say your happier and your kids are too. I see that in mine, I see they can tell I'm much better and happier person with him gone. I need some strength to tell him to leave me alone. This is my first time on the message board, but I saw Dr. Phil today, and looking for some support.
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