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August 23, 2005, 2:35 pm PDT

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I am new to this board, I am having problems at home, my mother died may 22 she has been gone for only 2 months and since then things got worse at home to the point where I had to leave home, the only reason I stayed home was to take care of my mom, after she past my dad started hitting on my he first talked about my chest then he asked me to sleep with him that really upset me a lot and scarred me. I Left home after that and he doesn't know where I am and I plan to keep it that way. I took him to cort over it and they would not do anything about it I think because I wasn't under age I am 32, but I feel that the only way they would do anything is if he did something to my like rape me and I won't let him. things are hard wright now her birthday is next month and this will be the first time with out her. the only thing I am happy about is that I found a house and will be able to move into it soon but I won't let him find me I also had to change my cell number so he would stop calling plus since I took him to cort he stepped coming to my work that made me scarred to the point that I had to ask one of my managers to walk me out side after work to feel safe, its  sad that I have to live in fear of my Father finding me that is not how I want to spend my life.     

      

Sara     

                                  Dear Sara, I can relate to you, except in my case it was my grandfather. No one would believe me either, until two others stepped forward. I think I would try to get Him on tape, video or audio. Then you would have the proof you need for a restraining order or something. Good luck. I don't know if this will help you. God Bless. Lorrie
 
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September 1, 2005, 4:43 pm PDT

Toxic Family Relationships

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I am new to this board, I am having problems at home, my mother died may 22 she has been gone for only 2 months and since then things got worse at home to the point where I had to leave home, the only reason I stayed home was to take care of my mom, after she past my dad started hitting on my he first talked about my chest then he asked me to sleep with him that really upset me a lot and scarred me. I Left home after that and he doesn't know where I am and I plan to keep it that way. I took him to cort over it and they would not do anything about it I think because I wasn't under age I am 32, but I feel that the only way they would do anything is if he did something to my like rape me and I won't let him. things are hard wright now her birthday is next month and this will be the first time with out her. the only thing I am happy about is that I found a house and will be able to move into it soon but I won't let him find me I also had to change my cell number so he would stop calling plus since I took him to cort he stepped coming to my work that made me scarred to the point that I had to ask one of my managers to walk me out side after work to feel safe, its  sad that I have to live in fear of my Father finding me that is not how I want to spend my life.     

      

Sara     

  

  

Get as far from your father as possible, and treat him like a stalker.  It's sick after your mother dies he wants to have sex with you?  WEIRDO MAN !!  Good for you with the restraining order !  As for the greif over your mom.. Find some on line support groups about Grief, widow support will help, and parent losses.. You lost your father too.. That guy is NOT your "Dad".  Fathers don't do that, weirdo sicko creeps do.  It's NOT normal.  I dont care what he says in his own defense.  You get gone and you stay gone from his life.  Dont let your future kids around him either.  YUCK ! 

 


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