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August 19, 2005, 7:56 am PDT
08/19 Ask Dr. Phil About Sex
Quote From: flthomcatOnce again you dropped the ball (although I still love your usual no nonsense, get real advice). This time you let Lori (the older woman) off the hook. Who cares how young two consenting ADULTS are?! That's not the issue.
The issue is this woman is jumping from bed-to-bed! She's not much different than someone who is paid to do so and that goes the same for men who sleep around! You slammed the "swingers" on your past shows, but you went "easy" (no pun intended) on Lori.
Whether we like it or not in this secular society, God had a plan and we know it worked; when people stray from it we see all the dysfunction, disease, abortions, unwanted pregnancies, adultry, divorce and the like.
Yes, Dr. Phil, it's OK to expect people to have great morals and values; it's what makes both people and society better. I pity Lori's son; he is more mature than she. My wish for her is that she sets her ego aside and starts loving herself enough to expect better of her own behavior...and she meets a wonderful, fun, committed man (regardless of his age). Having sex with any one other then your spouse is called adultery regardless of how one tries to justify it, it is wrong, it is a sin in God's eyes and it is just plain disgusting and disrespectful to one's partner as well as to themselves. If my husband ever came home and suggested swinging with othr couples, I would not stick around, He would definetly have to make a choice between me and them, would never happen in my home. And even if both were ok with it, still doesn't make it right and mature. Hopping from bed to bed is nothing but a sin, a disgrace and a sign of dissastisfaction in the marriage and the couple needs to communicate and get to the core of the problem. A marriage is about two people, not more and not less, swinging is nothing but a big fat excuse to hop into bed with some one else with out feeling accountability, it is a sluttish (not sure if that is a word or not but there it is) lifestyle and not any better then the prostitute or whore. There is no way of justifying this sin, there is nothing right or mature about it, no wonder the divorce rate is so high and teen pregnancy is such an issue, where is the committment and respect in a marriage and sex is looked upon as "game", not as a blessing and privelege for the marriaed couple. I thank God for a husband who loves and respects me as his wife to keep our relations in the right bedroom and I feel the same, we are committed to each other and no one else. Whatever happened to love, respect, committment and keeping of vows and what is this society teaching our kids? It sure the heck isn't about staying true to your partners..........................................
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