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March 20, 2006, 8:42 am PST

I'm with you...

Quote From: mommy2mine

ok....i actually don't disapprove completely with what this woman is doing.  i stay at home with my 2 children EVERY DAY while my husband works....and i go out once every other week, if not once a week.  it has nothing to do with lack of commitment, its a sense of independence.  granted i dont go out until 6am, or do drugs, but i think that its ok to get out from under the chaos every once in a while, and i dont think that people should judge until they have been in that situation

I agree with you. A person has to get out and away at times... If they continue to put all their energies into other people, and only other people  they will not be happy inside. It will eventually come out somehow. It's about having a healthy lifestyle. There has to be a balance of giving to others and to yourself.  

If this gal does this drinking and staying out as a daily habit then maybe she has a drinking problem or she really doesn't want to be with her family and maybe shouldn't have gotten married in the first place.That she needs to fix. But everyone needs to get out and get away from everyday stresses in some way. 

 
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March 22, 2006, 8:32 pm PST

RE Mommytomine

Quote From: mommy2mine

ok....i actually don't disapprove completely with what this woman is doing.  i stay at home with my 2 children EVERY DAY while my husband works....and i go out once every other week, if not once a week.  it has nothing to do with lack of commitment, its a sense of independence.  granted i dont go out until 6am, or do drugs, but i think that its ok to get out from under the chaos every once in a while, and i dont think that people should judge until they have been in that situation
I hear you about having fun every now and then and getting out, but I'll bet you aren't taking off your wedding ring to get guys to buy you drinks.  Then isn't it funny how her and her friend have 2 different stories?  The friend has nothing to lose by telling the truth, the wife does.
 


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