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March 20, 2006, 12:42 pm PST

You need to speak up!!

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   I am not saying everything that this woman does is right. Doing drugs anywhere is wrong. When a woman goes out to a bar it is wrong. Married men are hanging out at strip clubs all night and it is just fine. It is the old double standard. I sat at home for years. Watching my husband go out and have a good time while I sat at home with the kids. He felt it was his right since he WORKED HARD. What about me?  I worked and looked after the kids and the house. He did his eight hours and was off. Most women maintain a job and a household not to mention raising the children. If anyone deserves a night out it is the WOMAN!  

If you need time away from the house you need to speak up!!!  Assert YOUR right to have a break from all that you do.  If you don't say something, why would he change the status quo?
 
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March 20, 2006, 12:47 pm PST

I agree with you

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   I am not saying everything that this woman does is right. Doing drugs anywhere is wrong. When a woman goes out to a bar it is wrong. Married men are hanging out at strip clubs all night and it is just fine. It is the old double standard. I sat at home for years. Watching my husband go out and have a good time while I sat at home with the kids. He felt it was his right since he WORKED HARD. What about me?  I worked and looked after the kids and the house. He did his eight hours and was off. Most women maintain a job and a household not to mention raising the children. If anyone deserves a night out it is the WOMAN!  

 I have children ranging from 20 to 9 years old.  I do not think that she should be doing drugs, but she did say she quit doing, and  that she did learn from it.    But  going out with her friend a couple of  times a month ,  big deal.

Whoever doesn't agree that is your choice,  but you go girl.
 


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