Quote From: kobesnanaI would like to say to you and all others who think that they are
trying to be their kids' friend. What kind of a friend, teacher, employer, etc. wants to put up with bad behavior? It amazes me how so many parents don't seem to have a clue as to why they are raising delinquents. As the old saying goes - kids need boundaries. All kids do. Being their best friend would mean setting limits and having all in the household do the same. They will respect you forever and live much more productive and happier lives.
I am trying to set boundaries and have certain rules. I know that letting her run foot loose and fancy free isn't doing her any favors. I keep telling my ex that even though we are no longer married that we need to co-parent our children. He cannot see that he's not hurting anyone but his children when he lets them do whatever. He wants to be the 'good guy' and not the disciplinarian. He doesn't want his kids mad at him. I've talked till I'm blue in the face and all he manages to do is get angry with me!
