Quote From: jettavWork together and a marriage can be loving, happy, successful, fullfilling and a life time. My hubby and I are on the same page and we are in this marriage together, there are n demands, there are no bosses, there are no "I do more then you" attitide. We love, support, and repsect one another as two hard working, great parents and loving spouses, and this method works! We are one another' sencouragers and uplifters. You people who think that your spouse doesn't dp their part, then change places with them and do THEIR job and find out for your selves what they do.
Being a military wife, with a husband who is usually deployed for months at a time, leaves me with a great deal of time on my hands, when I was a stay at home mom, I managed to not only keep and maintain a house but to keep my husband happy while he was home. their are no bosses in this marriage, all their is here is teamwork, when my husband brings in the pay, I pay off the debt, and then I take care of what my husband needs and then what i want. our house was as clean as I could keep it when I had younger children. now that I have older children, I focus more on what we can do as a family then whether or not my husband leaves his shoes in the wrong room. what I see needs to happen is equality and acceptance of each other. this couple really needs to learn to accept each other. and to work together. I hope for their children that they can look behind the superficial stuff, and really get a chance to enjoy and cherish getting to know each other over and over again.
