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March 27, 2006, 8:00 am PST

03/27 More Wifestyles, Part 3

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To who ever who wrote this, your confusing me. Even though I believe that this couple needs to sit down and talk about this issue,you are making it sound like that the children to blame for this and it also sounds like you are a controll freak. I mean I could live in a dirty house all my life and still be happy with my family. What are you getting at?
In my opinion there is no excuxe 4 this. If she is home all day pregnant or not she can clean up. She even has a babysitter while she  stays home!, give me a break the woman is lazy. I had 6 kids and a couple of them R stairsteps So I was pregnant w/a baby @home. I was able to keep my house clean.  However my husband is a big help. He'll clean, cook, sew,do laundry. So if the sucker doesn't like it tel lhim to get off his lazy ass and help, housecleaning isn't only woman's work ,if U want a clean house.  My son told my daughter once doing dishes was woman's work- he did them for a week and we have a dishwasher-but he busted those suds 4 a week and cleaned other things. Now he mops floors and cleans the bathroom and next he's gonna learn to sew and he's learning to cook. B----ing about it ain't gonna clean it.  Learn to delegate jobs. I worked, came home cleaned the house, cooked dinner, helped the kids w/homework did what I had to do. Yeah I was tired, but there's things that just have to be done and they won't do themselves.  If I needed help I "Asked" 4 it. Plus my kids had chores even as little kids. Everybody lives here and everybody helps. However when I was @ home I did most of the housework.  If something wasn't done and I didn't feel like doing it and my husband had something to say I'd tell him so do it or shut up. He'd do it or shut up. He yells loud, but I yell  worse. He doesn't want to get me started(smart guy I finally got him trained after 32 years(smile). Don't come @me w/that yakkety yak. I say handle it-handle it. By the way when pregnant w/my girls (3)I had  AM sickness the whole pregnancy and still cleaned my house and ran a daycare since I was home.  So she needs to quit beiing Nasty and Lazy and do what she has to do. She,  being pregnant, shouldn't want to be in a Nasty house, where's her pride?
 
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March 28, 2006, 12:43 am PST

No She's Not!

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To who ever who wrote this, your confusing me. Even though I believe that this couple needs to sit down and talk about this issue, you are making it sound like that the children to blame for this and it also sounds like you are a controll freak. I mean I could live in a dirty house all my life and still be happy with my family. What are you getting at?

Delbie is NOT blaming the children at ALL.  She is merely stating a fact that toddlers innocently leave toys around and are messy.  That does not constitute blaming the children!  Of course the children are innocent and need love and understanding.  Delbie's message is really good advise, and it is meant for Ken and Diane - period. 

 


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