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March 27, 2006, 12:32 pm PST
Response to Faith00
Quote From: faith00Being a military wife, with a husband who is usually deployed for months at a time, leaves me with a great deal of time on my hands, when I was a stay at home mom, I managed to not only keep and maintain a house but to keep my husband happy while he was home. their are no bosses in this marriage, all their is here is teamwork, when my husband brings in the pay, I pay off the debt, and then I take care of what my husband needs and then what i want. our house was as clean as I could keep it when I had younger children. now that I have older children, I focus more on what we can do as a family then whether or not my husband leaves his shoes in the wrong room. what I see needs to happen is equality and acceptance of each other. this couple really needs to learn to accept each other. and to work together. I hope for their children that they can look behind the superficial stuff, and really get a chance to enjoy and cherish getting to know each other over and over again.
You hit the nail on the head!!! A Military wife really has to deal with it all. I was a Military wife we are now retired but it was very hard. My husband was always on TDY or deployed and I had to work plus manage a house and tend to the kids. These guy have no "idea" what it's all about. I never complained because I knew atleast I had the kids with me and my husband was over where ever by himself. The worst was when I was in Okinawa Japan with no one but the kids. It's something we do because we love our men. Ken needs to grown up don't you think. Also I don't thing he know's what a dirty nasty house look's like. For sure it's not his.
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