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March 27, 2006, 9:52 am PST
SAH Laziness
Quote From: hattonfanI myself am a SAH & have been for almost 8 years. I have 3 children, all under 10. So, I'm not about to speak on something I know nothing about. As I watched today's show (& folding laundry), I found myself feeling disgusted by Diana's behavior & demeanor. Pregnancy & children are simply excuses for not doing what she is suppose to. I have been pregnant 3 times as well & I never used that as an excuse to not meet my responsibilities in my household. Yeah, you get tired, but you rest & get going again. You don't leave 50 Cheerios on the floor all day! That's just plain nasty & unsanitary. Diana should keep that house clean & orderly & laundry should be hung correctly , as her husband wishes. The house should be spotless, especially w/ babysitters & Mom helping out! There's just no excuse for her not to uphold her responsibilities in that house. It is her choice to be a SAH & to have kids. SAH is a job in & of itself, which includes, but not limited to housecleaning, child rearing, cooking, etc.. If Diana doesn't like her lifestyle,then she needs to actively change it instead of complaing about it. I keep my house clean & orderly. I clean everyday. I cook everyday. I do what my responsibilities as a SAH are everyday. My husband may help out sometimes, but I do not expect it of him, nor require him to do anything. His job is outside the home & mine is inside the home. Any husband who has a SAH should not have to come home to a messy/dirty house ever. That shows disrespect & no appreciation towards the husband by the wife. So, I think Diana needs to get off her behind & do whatever it takes to make sure her home is orderly & clean. There's just simply no excuse for her not to. Well I don't know just were to start with this one!!! Your husband must have a Miss Betty Crocker or your trying to get brownie points.....First off if you have 3 kids your house can't be spottless enless you don't let your children be children! What is this about 50 Cheerios on the floor? If he has time to count them than I say the "Fat Butt" can pick them up.....You said that a SAH has the job of cleaning, cooking, rearing children, hanging laundry the way her husband wants her to!!! Oh and don't leave out the sex part he doesn't seem to have a problem in that department. As for the laundry Excuse me but if he doesn't like the way she hungs his laundry than he can di it himself. Your husband must have you trained pretty darn well but, honey that's just not the way it is in the "REAL" world. A marriage is a 50-50 deal no other way. I don't believe this woman has a nasty dirty house either just lived in.
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