Some of those things were a little harsh. First, I am not a perfect wife, but I do strive to be as anyone should strive to be in a relationship. I have been in the real world and have been very successful in everything I have done because I have choosen to strive to be the best in everything I do. No wonder why there are so many divorces. A husband should be able to say he doesn't like something in his home without a wife getting hysterical and telling him to do it himself. In my experience, when people over react or become overly emotional about things it is because they know that they are not putting in there best. The whole money issue, I don't see Diana cutting down on her spending habits to prove that she wants him home more. If and when my husband provides the things like Ken has provided I am always appreciative because I should be. You get what you give. If I don't appreciate him then why should he appreciate me. Just because Ken could use some language tweeking doesn't mean that Diana should dismiss what he is saying.