Quote From: nikann11Todays topic about the swingers was very sad to me. This is in no way to be justified with meeting the needs of a high sex drive. That is something that is so precious and sacred to share with the man or woman you love. You guys are giving yourselves away as if it means nothing, and by doing so - you have denied, belittled, betrayed and rejected one another. When you marry you promise to love, honor and respect one another. You take these vows before God. To me, this is more than just a selfish act to meet a lusty need. This is sin.
I watched the show today and I was appalled at this couple trying to justify their behavior. The husband is not as bad as the wife and I believe he feels guilty about what he is doing. This marriage is doomed and they will not make it another year. What happened to honoring one's vows they took when they stood before God at the altar and promised to be faithful to each other? They have children and they have sex with their children in the home. Child welfare should remove these kids from this sickness and perverted way of thinking. I can't imagnine what these kids would think if they suddenly woke up and went down stairs and caught their parents swinging. How could they possibly explain to their kids what they were doing. This is the kind of behavior that messes children minds up and stops them from becoming a functioning human being. They will always remember seeing their mother and father naked with other people and will probably grow up thinking that this behavior is acceptable. This is worst than child abuse and it can only lead to problems for everyone involved.
I agree with dr phil when he pointed out that the strangers involved could bring harm to these children at some future time or even right in the home. Suppose the parents are murdered and the kids are all alone with no one to protect them from a dangerous predator? This entire situation makes me angry and I fear for those kids welfare. Child services should investigate this family and if these parents weren't so selfish they would see the danger that they are creating.
Embarrassing and sinful.
