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March 28, 2006, 12:05 am PST

"good reasons for webcam sex business"

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I just finished watching the episode that hate the mom locking her room to do webcam shows for money.  

  

I am also in the same line of work as her, and I can relate to why the business of webcam is so hard to stop, and so hard to even put off for alittle while.  Since all you need is a computer, high speed, a webcam or camcorder, and you can making a fist full of cash in minutes after being set up and advertising  

  

there is tones of webcam sites out there they are hiring webcam models male or female or other (TS or TV) on daily basis. for me is was my VERY first job or source of income and in a very short time I was able to move out and support myself I only 18 years old, 3 years later I am still making a comfortable living from webcam shows, phone with webcam shows, and having my own website.  

  

and YES ! the money is addictive especially if you are canadian making us dollars with almost next to know effort.  

  

But for me I have a positive goal to why I work as webcam model. I want to go university but my parents are no support what soever, so for me to get it done I have to any means nessary and being a webcam girl is 10000000% better then being a stripper in a strip club, or escort aka hooker.  

  

I rather log on my webcam, and never no psychial or personal contact with customers then actually see them face to face. Since the busines is 99% maniplulation that is where you as the model have all the control. and yes it might distory familes and maybe even put a strain on other people financially.  

  

but with the way the job market is. there is very little options for new comers starting out on their own with no financial support to get help, no every has a mommy and daddy who cares about them. and not every has a trust fund, or has a grandma or grandpa about to die and leave them money,  

  

and since the new generation is soo sexualltiy liberating, you can pretty much see 1 in 5 teenages 18 and over getting ready to jump in the webcam career, and yes I say career because you deal with sales, promoting, marketing and keep customers and gaining new customers.  

  

but if you in it for the wrong reasons you will never have a positive goal to pull you back out like school, a car or a house or even retirement.  

  

All these shows are constantly showing the negative things about internet porn bbut not one has a person on there doing it for a positive reason even there is a few out there that treat it like a business, and do not let it become soo far that is ruins thier lives or thier lives of people around them. 

Lots of girls have needed to make money.  I have a beautiful body and you don't see me taking my clothes off for a buck.  I have been at a place in my life where I only had $20 in my pocket and could have easily turned to this kind of business or any business that uses the female body, but, because I value ALL women more than I do making LOTS of money, I would never even consider doing this.  You can find legitimate work without taking your clothes off.  Manipulating men and women with your sexuality is wrong no matter how you look at it and justifying that you will be able to turn your life around is ludicrous due to all the actual damage you cause along the way for so many people that you don't even know or even stop to think about.  The worst part is that you hurt yourself the most but because you have lost your own personal value, you find ways to justify it, like saying "everybody else is doing it".  The legacy of American girls is at stake due to the very attitude you have.   May Dr. Phil do everything in his power to bring this "industry" to an end.  This is nothing more than LEGAL PROSTITUTION when sex is involved. 

  

www.standforwomen.com 

  

1 in 4 women are molested in the U.S. according to Dr. Phil!  The porn industry is a DIRECT cause. 

 
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March 28, 2006, 7:59 am PST

It's so sad, that some girls cant see what the rest of us are doing to survive!

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I just finished watching the episode that hate the mom locking her room to do webcam shows for money.  

  

I am also in the same line of work as her, and I can relate to why the business of webcam is so hard to stop, and so hard to even put off for alittle while.  Since all you need is a computer, high speed, a webcam or camcorder, and you can making a fist full of cash in minutes after being set up and advertising  

  

there is tones of webcam sites out there they are hiring webcam models male or female or other (TS or TV) on daily basis. for me is was my VERY first job or source of income and in a very short time I was able to move out and support myself I only 18 years old, 3 years later I am still making a comfortable living from webcam shows, phone with webcam shows, and having my own website.  

  

and YES ! the money is addictive especially if you are canadian making us dollars with almost next to know effort.  

  

But for me I have a positive goal to why I work as webcam model. I want to go university but my parents are no support what soever, so for me to get it done I have to any means nessary and being a webcam girl is 10000000% better then being a stripper in a strip club, or escort aka hooker.  

  

I rather log on my webcam, and never no psychial or personal contact with customers then actually see them face to face. Since the busines is 99% maniplulation that is where you as the model have all the control. and yes it might distory familes and maybe even put a strain on other people financially.  

  

but with the way the job market is. there is very little options for new comers starting out on their own with no financial support to get help, no every has a mommy and daddy who cares about them. and not every has a trust fund, or has a grandma or grandpa about to die and leave them money,  

  

and since the new generation is soo sexualltiy liberating, you can pretty much see 1 in 5 teenages 18 and over getting ready to jump in the webcam career, and yes I say career because you deal with sales, promoting, marketing and keep customers and gaining new customers.  

  

but if you in it for the wrong reasons you will never have a positive goal to pull you back out like school, a car or a house or even retirement.  

  

All these shows are constantly showing the negative things about internet porn bbut not one has a person on there doing it for a positive reason even there is a few out there that treat it like a business, and do not let it become soo far that is ruins thier lives or thier lives of people around them. 

Im so sorry to see how much you have been mis-guided through your own life. 

I hope you find the strength to get that education you speak of, as from reading your story, you are very much in need. Im also so sorry to hear that you dont have parents to support you. But guess what, neither do I. I am a 34 year old single attractive woman with a computer and I would never do that to myself. EVER! I choose to use my brain to make money, you should try it. You will feel so much better about yoruself for it! 

I sincerely hope you find what you need, to make better choices for yourself, and Good Luck. BUT you don't need to sell yourself. There is no price that can be put on your own personal self-esteem, & while working as a cyber slut, Im sure you have very little self confidence outside that bedroom of yours. Stop hiding behind your computer and use the brain God gave ya, Not just the rest of your body! Good Luck!~~! 

 
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March 28, 2006, 8:49 am PST

At Least be honest with yourself

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I just finished watching the episode that hate the mom locking her room to do webcam shows for money.  

  

I am also in the same line of work as her, and I can relate to why the business of webcam is so hard to stop, and so hard to even put off for alittle while.  Since all you need is a computer, high speed, a webcam or camcorder, and you can making a fist full of cash in minutes after being set up and advertising  

  

there is tones of webcam sites out there they are hiring webcam models male or female or other (TS or TV) on daily basis. for me is was my VERY first job or source of income and in a very short time I was able to move out and support myself I only 18 years old, 3 years later I am still making a comfortable living from webcam shows, phone with webcam shows, and having my own website.  

  

and YES ! the money is addictive especially if you are canadian making us dollars with almost next to know effort.  

  

But for me I have a positive goal to why I work as webcam model. I want to go university but my parents are no support what soever, so for me to get it done I have to any means nessary and being a webcam girl is 10000000% better then being a stripper in a strip club, or escort aka hooker.  

  

I rather log on my webcam, and never no psychial or personal contact with customers then actually see them face to face. Since the busines is 99% maniplulation that is where you as the model have all the control. and yes it might distory familes and maybe even put a strain on other people financially.  

  

but with the way the job market is. there is very little options for new comers starting out on their own with no financial support to get help, no every has a mommy and daddy who cares about them. and not every has a trust fund, or has a grandma or grandpa about to die and leave them money,  

  

and since the new generation is soo sexualltiy liberating, you can pretty much see 1 in 5 teenages 18 and over getting ready to jump in the webcam career, and yes I say career because you deal with sales, promoting, marketing and keep customers and gaining new customers.  

  

but if you in it for the wrong reasons you will never have a positive goal to pull you back out like school, a car or a house or even retirement.  

  

All these shows are constantly showing the negative things about internet porn bbut not one has a person on there doing it for a positive reason even there is a few out there that treat it like a business, and do not let it become soo far that is ruins thier lives or thier lives of people around them. 

You strip because it is easy and quick.  You can sleep all day and get naked for strangers at night and never have to leave home. 

Your statement about the "trust fund babies" made me se red.  I am 35 and  growing up my family was poor as dirt as a matter I spent most of my summers helping my Mom put up food for the winter.  There was no money for college so I went to work at a real job.  Never once did it occur to me to become a prostitute.  You are lazy, unmotivated and have no self pride at least be honest with yourself  

 
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March 28, 2006, 10:02 am PST

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I just finished watching the episode that hate the mom locking her room to do webcam shows for money.  

  

I am also in the same line of work as her, and I can relate to why the business of webcam is so hard to stop, and so hard to even put off for alittle while.  Since all you need is a computer, high speed, a webcam or camcorder, and you can making a fist full of cash in minutes after being set up and advertising  

  

there is tones of webcam sites out there they are hiring webcam models male or female or other (TS or TV) on daily basis. for me is was my VERY first job or source of income and in a very short time I was able to move out and support myself I only 18 years old, 3 years later I am still making a comfortable living from webcam shows, phone with webcam shows, and having my own website.  

  

and YES ! the money is addictive especially if you are canadian making us dollars with almost next to know effort.  

  

But for me I have a positive goal to why I work as webcam model. I want to go university but my parents are no support what soever, so for me to get it done I have to any means nessary and being a webcam girl is 10000000% better then being a stripper in a strip club, or escort aka hooker.  

  

I rather log on my webcam, and never no psychial or personal contact with customers then actually see them face to face. Since the busines is 99% maniplulation that is where you as the model have all the control. and yes it might distory familes and maybe even put a strain on other people financially.  

  

but with the way the job market is. there is very little options for new comers starting out on their own with no financial support to get help, no every has a mommy and daddy who cares about them. and not every has a trust fund, or has a grandma or grandpa about to die and leave them money,  

  

and since the new generation is soo sexualltiy liberating, you can pretty much see 1 in 5 teenages 18 and over getting ready to jump in the webcam career, and yes I say career because you deal with sales, promoting, marketing and keep customers and gaining new customers.  

  

but if you in it for the wrong reasons you will never have a positive goal to pull you back out like school, a car or a house or even retirement.  

  

All these shows are constantly showing the negative things about internet porn bbut not one has a person on there doing it for a positive reason even there is a few out there that treat it like a business, and do not let it become soo far that is ruins thier lives or thier lives of people around them. 

hi -- 

  

within my personal moral code, i have no problem with porn  or prostitution [for ADULTS only].   in fact, i think legalizing prostitiution would be a grand idea.  the u.s. has not been able to codify, to anyone's satisfaction, laws dealing with porn, lewdness, etc -- because of the need to protect freedom of expression and various civil rights.  sometimes we all see things that as individuals we think cross "the line,"  but often we can only deal with that be exercising our right to protest and vent. 

  

given all that...i am enormously bothered -- how can you be absolutely sure that you are dealing with an adult?  children are precious and more and more their years of innocence are being drained.   

  

you define adults as "over 18." so wrong.  i wish i had the appropriate "dr-phil-ism" handy ... but he often shares data about brain maturation and how it isn't even close to being fully evolved at 18. 

  

i did a brief stint as a high school teacher and could testify on a stack of bibles that "18 and 19" don't mean a darned thing in terms of adulthood.   

  

that's my only big gripe.  what you are doing is awful, i think, but legal and safe [i assume there is no way to trace a "session" back to you and that you NEVER disclose personal info].  i agree that a positive goal/end goal is good -- so you will not do this forever. 

  

your remarks about folks not having a parents unable to help with college, or a trust fund from grandparents -- that was out of line.  there is a majority, and probably it is a silent majority, of people who condemn what you are doing and who will struggle with more conventional jobs and businesses, who will go into debt -- and who will end up, with morals intact, at university, community college, trade school, military, or directly into the work foce.  don't knock it! 

  

you wrote: Since the busines is 99% maniplulation that is where you as the model have all the control. and yes it might distory familes and maybe even put a strain on other people financially.....   

but with the way the job market is. there is very little options... 

 

ahhh, my child.  i am so sad to read that. and don't quite know what to say to you.  others might... but i can't find the words. 

  

be well, 

profderien 

  

 
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March 28, 2006, 1:14 pm PST

When's the next semester begin?

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I just finished watching the episode that hate the mom locking her room to do webcam shows for money.  

  

I am also in the same line of work as her, and I can relate to why the business of webcam is so hard to stop, and so hard to even put off for alittle while.  Since all you need is a computer, high speed, a webcam or camcorder, and you can making a fist full of cash in minutes after being set up and advertising  

  

there is tones of webcam sites out there they are hiring webcam models male or female or other (TS or TV) on daily basis. for me is was my VERY first job or source of income and in a very short time I was able to move out and support myself I only 18 years old, 3 years later I am still making a comfortable living from webcam shows, phone with webcam shows, and having my own website.  

  

and YES ! the money is addictive especially if you are canadian making us dollars with almost next to know effort.  

  

But for me I have a positive goal to why I work as webcam model. I want to go university but my parents are no support what soever, so for me to get it done I have to any means nessary and being a webcam girl is 10000000% better then being a stripper in a strip club, or escort aka hooker.  

  

I rather log on my webcam, and never no psychial or personal contact with customers then actually see them face to face. Since the busines is 99% maniplulation that is where you as the model have all the control. and yes it might distory familes and maybe even put a strain on other people financially.  

  

but with the way the job market is. there is very little options for new comers starting out on their own with no financial support to get help, no every has a mommy and daddy who cares about them. and not every has a trust fund, or has a grandma or grandpa about to die and leave them money,  

  

and since the new generation is soo sexualltiy liberating, you can pretty much see 1 in 5 teenages 18 and over getting ready to jump in the webcam career, and yes I say career because you deal with sales, promoting, marketing and keep customers and gaining new customers.  

  

but if you in it for the wrong reasons you will never have a positive goal to pull you back out like school, a car or a house or even retirement.  

  

All these shows are constantly showing the negative things about internet porn bbut not one has a person on there doing it for a positive reason even there is a few out there that treat it like a business, and do not let it become soo far that is ruins thier lives or thier lives of people around them. 

Hi!  I have only two questions.  When does the next semester begin?  Don't you owe it to yourself to register NOW?   

  

  

 

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March 28, 2006, 2:45 pm PST

03/28 Money Hungry

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I just finished watching the episode that hate the mom locking her room to do webcam shows for money.  

  

I am also in the same line of work as her, and I can relate to why the business of webcam is so hard to stop, and so hard to even put off for alittle while.  Since all you need is a computer, high speed, a webcam or camcorder, and you can making a fist full of cash in minutes after being set up and advertising  

  

there is tones of webcam sites out there they are hiring webcam models male or female or other (TS or TV) on daily basis. for me is was my VERY first job or source of income and in a very short time I was able to move out and support myself I only 18 years old, 3 years later I am still making a comfortable living from webcam shows, phone with webcam shows, and having my own website.  

  

and YES ! the money is addictive especially if you are canadian making us dollars with almost next to know effort.  

  

But for me I have a positive goal to why I work as webcam model. I want to go university but my parents are no support what soever, so for me to get it done I have to any means nessary and being a webcam girl is 10000000% better then being a stripper in a strip club, or escort aka hooker.  

  

I rather log on my webcam, and never no psychial or personal contact with customers then actually see them face to face. Since the busines is 99% maniplulation that is where you as the model have all the control. and yes it might distory familes and maybe even put a strain on other people financially.  

  

but with the way the job market is. there is very little options for new comers starting out on their own with no financial support to get help, no every has a mommy and daddy who cares about them. and not every has a trust fund, or has a grandma or grandpa about to die and leave them money,  

  

and since the new generation is soo sexualltiy liberating, you can pretty much see 1 in 5 teenages 18 and over getting ready to jump in the webcam career, and yes I say career because you deal with sales, promoting, marketing and keep customers and gaining new customers.  

  

but if you in it for the wrong reasons you will never have a positive goal to pull you back out like school, a car or a house or even retirement.  

  

All these shows are constantly showing the negative things about internet porn bbut not one has a person on there doing it for a positive reason even there is a few out there that treat it like a business, and do not let it become soo far that is ruins thier lives or thier lives of people around them. 

You are only 18 years old and you have no idea what turns your life will take.  Once you send  images out on the internet, you have lost control of them and they can come back to bite you pretty hard.  Can you imagine a potential employer or a co worker seeing those images once you have graduated and trying to live as a professional? 

  

I'm Canadian, too.  My folks couldn't help me go to school because they had 7 kids and yet I earned my my law degree.  I did it by working full time for 4 months in the summer and part time during school and by getting student loans. It is possible to do it without putting yourself in the position you are in. 

 


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