I don't mean this to sound disrespectful, but how old are you? Your post sounds like something my 15 year old daughter would be complaining about. I have to agree with your husband, you might be too sensitive about this situation! You can't control what your friends do without you, the only thing you can do is accept it, and try to make yourself involved. Have you withdrawn from them lately in order to "prove" that you don't need them? If you have, you are only hurting yourself, because their lives will go on without you. also, they won't know if you are upset about something unless you tell them, they are not mind readers, so if you really need to know if they are doing this to be mean to you, then you should bring it up.
