Quote From: jenoc99I don't mean this to sound disrespectful, but how old are you? Your post sounds like something my 15 year old daughter would be complaining about. I have to agree with your husband, you might be too sensitive about this situation! You can't control what your friends do without you, the only thing you can do is accept it, and try to make yourself involved. Have you withdrawn from them lately in order to "prove" that you don't need them? If you have, you are only hurting yourself, because their lives will go on without you. also, they won't know if you are upset about something unless you tell them, they are not mind readers, so if you really need to know if they are doing this to be mean to you, then you should bring it up.
I confronted them but,didn't get any kind of real response and no I haven't withdrawn from them as of matter of fact I just asked BOTH of them to lunch last week.
My age isn't important what is important is that I have grown tired of it always having to be a threesome everywhere we go ( it's too junior high IMO) and have been trying to occasionally do things on a more one on one basis, and THEY are the ones who insist it's all of us or nothing.
I have even tried a few times to convince them go out without me and they say " we can't go out wihtout you it's all three of us or nothing we would never go anywhere without you" but the truth of the matter is they do go out without me quite often and for some unknown reason they feel they need to hide it from me.
Let me ask you..if the shoe was on your foot wouldn't you be angry and/or hurt? Obviously you've never been a fifth wheel
