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Thanks for taking an interest in my comments. 

I do have problems ... and issues do come into play. 

Sit down and make a plan?  Love to!  Tried it and it always ends up being something that can't be fixed because I'll never understand and, as much as I try, I've been told by her that I never will.  That's not fair ... to her or me! 

We'll try to do this, make more time for that, eliminate this road block, help more with this or that and still nothing. 

It's possible that she's not having fun with sex ... I'm not a mind reader, I"m not well-endowed, I don't claim to know the Kama Sutra, nor am I the "hunk of the week".  The one thing that I am is dedicated to trying and even addicted to her hapiness. 

Pleasure spots and secret kinks, eh?  I'd love to know them but, according to her, she doesn't have anything that she wants to change ... she keeps saying that she loves things just as they are.  You've got to be kidding me?  If she has fantasies, I can't be them.  If she has passions, dreams or desires, I've tried to cater to them, regardless of what they are but especially if they are related to our intimacy. 

Playing hookey usually ends up with both of us going to breakfast or lunch together, shopping and getting home before the kids do ... to be parents again ... that's it!  "thanks for a great day honey!"  ... nothing more! 

I've done a lot and maybe I haven't done enough but she tells her friends that I'm a wonderful person.  So, again, I'm confused. 

At this point, it is easier to not plan, not to expect and not get disappointed than to plan, expect and be heartbroken when it just doesn't work out again! 

Thanks for taking an interest in my comments. 

I do have problems ... and issues do come into play. 

Sit down and make a plan?  Love to!  Tried it and it always ends up being something that can't be fixed because I'll never understand and, as much as I try, I've been told by her that I never will.  That's not fair ... to her or me! 

We'll try to do this, make more time for that, eliminate this road block, help more with this or that and still nothing. 

It's possible that she's not having fun with sex ... I'm not a mind reader, I"m not well-endowed, I don't claim to know the Kama Sutra, nor am I the "hunk of the week".  The one thing that I am is dedicated to trying and even addicted to her hapiness. 

Pleasure spots and secret kinks, eh?  I'd love to know them but, according to her, she doesn't have anything that she wants to change ... she keeps saying that she loves things just as they are.  You've got to be kidding me?  If she has fantasies, I can't be them.  If she has passions, dreams or desires, I've tried to cater to them, regardless of what they are but especially if they are related to our intimacy. 

Playing hookey usually ends up with both of us going to breakfast or lunch together, shopping and getting home before the kids do ... to be parents again ... that's it!  "thanks for a great day honey!"  ... nothing more! 

I've done a lot and maybe I haven't done enough but she tells her friends that I'm a wonderful person.  So, again, I'm confused. 

At this point, it is easier to not plan, not to expect and not get disappointed than to plan, expect and be heartbroken when it just doesn't work out again!