Replies to '03/31 Love Smart, Part 1'

Quote From: denicel74

Yeah, well, I'm in a similar situation as these ladies. I'm 31, single for almost 8 years. I've been told that I am intimidating. A married gentleman friend of mine told me that I am "the package" meaning "smart, beautiful, hilarious, down to earth" and that that "package" makes me intimidating to men. Which is probably why I've had 2 dates in that 8 years. Both of which relationships I pulled out of because of other reasons. One was a non motivated college grad and the other was just too negative and hung up on his ex. I've given my phone number probably close to a dozen times to other men but never received a phone call. I do however, have alot of men friends. I think most of my problem is that I'm very guarded and I'm not sure how to get rid of this "fence". I have this feeling that I'll meet him but at my age, I'm starting to feel my biological clock tick.