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April 1, 2006, 5:34 pm PST
not sure
Quote From: kahina74I have watched the Dr. Phil show many times, but none ever moved me to come to the website as this one. Here is the saga of my social life. I am black, single mother of two beautiful kids. After 10 year relationship, I am looking for what I term the man that is "perfect for me". I have tried internet dating, and have met some men, but so often there is this impasse. I am currently pursuing my Phd and after evaluating myself, I realize that there are a few things that are critical to me: breadth and depth of knowledge which mostly comes with being educated, and a sense of self, that is someone who has done some deep thinking and has found his life's purpose. I find that these qualities in one package is a rarity within the African American community. So many of the opposite sex tell me that I am great, wonderful, outgoing, fun , and funny, but then are intimidated by my academic achievement and future aspirations. I have heard similar stories from female friends.So, I am wondering is Mr."perfect for me " out there???? i am not sure about the african american community....heck i am not even sure of the caucasian community..i feel out of touch of the prevailing community feeling...but my feeling...the achievements and aspirations is what i want in a partner. I think it is good thing to have those motivations to be the best you can. So those are major attractions to me. the fact you are also great, wonderful, outgoing, fun and funny....even better!!! You sound like a fun person..
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