Replies to '06/09 Loving Dumb'

If a guy is not "that into" someone, then he should just be man enough to say it.  Even that phrase alone is better than no explanation at all.  Women need something they can accept so they can get closure on a relationship and to provide a woman with no explanation will leave her analyzing and questioning the entire relationship for months.  All it takes is a simple, honest reason and not only will women respect a man more for that, but it will make it easier for her to move on to someone better.

but don't you think sometimes the real reason why men dump women without an explanation is that maybe they are insecure in themselves, or in the relationship, and men like Robert on the show is just using that as an excuse? I'd appreciate other peoples feedback about this.

Men sometimes don't give any explanation for dumping a woman because their reasons are shallow.  You can have several phone conversation with a man and they just really like who you are and what you stand for, but then they meet you and you're not tall enough, not skinny enough, not pretty enough.  They forget what peaked their interest in the first place.  Does being not skinny, pretty, or tall enough really have anything to do with who you are inside?  I'm sick and tired of men only looking as far as the outside of a person to know if he likes her or not.  OK, getting off my soap box

I have been brutally dumped for no reason and I came to realize that when a guy does that -it is his problem and his loss- he is missing out on a great woman- it was not easy to learn this-but i did-  

His problem-His loss