Quote From: mensanI wouldn't get involved with trying to explain anything to her. She is, as you say, just dumping negativity on you. The more you engage with her, the more she'll dump on you. As you said, when she feels good she doesn't call you. I would just disengage with a person like that. You have your own problems and you don't need hers. Let it go.
Mensan
do you ever feel like you have to explain yourself to another person. For some stupid reason i always feel like i have to do this. When like you said just let it go. She is never going to change. But i want to see the best in others. and i was just hoping that i could find it in her. Despite her major mental illnesses and lack of positiveness. You are right to. The more i am engaged with a person like that will not help my depression what so ever. Thanks for the imput. I always appreciate your level headedness on situations. My pdoc says i lack poor judgement skills. So it helps having friends on this board that understand. Thank you.
