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July 3, 2006, 9:46 pm PDT
07/03 "I Want My Ex Back"
Quote From: kinyazIt's baffling how women ignore red flags, then cry foul as if they were caught by surprise by the conduct of these men. Even in months, you get a good idea of a person's behavior, SO or otherwise. Is it that these women think they can put up with annoying habits and behaviors? If he grabs your breasts in public before you marry him, and you don't ask him to stop, why is it an issue now after marriage?!
You mean to say these women DON'T see immaturity, financial irresponsibility, anger issues etc before marrying these men? How is that possible? What do these men and women do during courtship? Don't they spend time getting to know each other? Sorry for all the questions, I'm just seriously flabbergasted by these stories!
Some people are very good at justifying their behaviors. They are masters of manipulation. A woman can see the red flags, but depending on her definition of what "love should look like", she can see her partner's unstable behavior and anger tendancies toward outsiders and make the false assumption that if her partner really loves her, he will never act that way towards her. Until one day, he realizes that she is the easiest target and the only one who will allow him to get away with those behaviors. Usually, he is manipulative enough to cause her to believe that somehow she caused his reaction. This will go on until she gets the courage to stand up for herself.
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