Quote From: mamma2In response to Amber and Duane, there are two sides to every story. I feel that this was just Amber's point of view and it didn't focus on Duane's side of the marriage. I noticed he didn't say much......maybe that is because he didn't want to discuss her "dirty laundry" on national television, just a guess. I felt that he was being dumped upon, and that her demands didn't seem idealistic. For instance why would he have to move back with his parents? He is a grown man, with a job that supports his family. Why would he have to give up what he has earned in his life? I don't understand why you would marry someone you have to "fix" or "change" anyways?
It happens more then it should. People marry and they overlook the imperfections hoping they will magically disappear when they marry and become the perfect spouse. Too many people marry without realizing that a good marriage requires a lot of work from BOTH spouses.
As far as her wanting him to move into his mothers house she said that he was paying his rent using a credit card. I guess she doesn't want more bills coming into the house if she does end up taking him back. He lives way beyond his means from what was described.