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April 4, 2006, 11:44 am PDT

04/04 "I Want My Ex Back"

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I happen to know Amber and she is one of the most generous, loving, gentle spirits I've ever met.  She has managed to raise 3 amazingly beautiful, well behaved and respectful children in spite of the problems in this marriage.  Well, it shouldn't be that way.  Imagine how wonderful things would be if there was no "in spite of." 

  

We've all been there.  We've all made mistakes.  We've dated/married/loved the wrong guy at some time in our lives, denying the obvious that's staring us right in the face.  I don't think anyone can say they haven't.   

  

As for the person who says the story was one sided, I'll bet anything you're someone he knows trying to make him look better.  He didn't say much because there's not much defense to buying $13,000 motorcycles when your family needs money to pay the bills or "hooking" up with your ex girlfriend when you're trying to talk your wife into getting back together.  Don't you think Dr. Phil would love to give him credit if it were due?  It's obvious to me that Dr. Phil prefers to present the truth and if one person comes off looking bad, it's because that's the way it really is. 

Well said!!  Dr. Phil gave Duane the opportunity to speak up and defend himself and he couldn't!  He couldn't because there is no defending himself.  Dr. Phil always is fair and he was fair in their discussion.  It is obvious to me that Dr. Phil knows what Amber needs to do and I know Amber knows what she needs to do and I know she will do it! 

 
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April 5, 2006, 8:19 pm PDT

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I happen to know Amber and she is one of the most generous, loving, gentle spirits I've ever met.  She has managed to raise 3 amazingly beautiful, well behaved and respectful children in spite of the problems in this marriage.  Well, it shouldn't be that way.  Imagine how wonderful things would be if there was no "in spite of." 

  

We've all been there.  We've all made mistakes.  We've dated/married/loved the wrong guy at some time in our lives, denying the obvious that's staring us right in the face.  I don't think anyone can say they haven't.   

  

As for the person who says the story was one sided, I'll bet anything you're someone he knows trying to make him look better.  He didn't say much because there's not much defense to buying $13,000 motorcycles when your family needs money to pay the bills or "hooking" up with your ex girlfriend when you're trying to talk your wife into getting back together.  Don't you think Dr. Phil would love to give him credit if it were due?  It's obvious to me that Dr. Phil prefers to present the truth and if one person comes off looking bad, it's because that's the way it really is. 

I believe Amber AND Duane has raised 3 beautiful respectful well behaved children. It was an effort from both parties that raised  thosed kids, lets not put Amber up on too high a pedestal here, it happens way too often, someone is overlooked for all the good he has done by someone that can't help but spread dirt to any who will listen. Why is that? Its my belief that Amber never wanted to reconcile. It was just a ruse to get Duane to soften up his stance on not "signing over" the house.  

 


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