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April 4, 2006, 4:15 pm PDT

with friends like you

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Well said!!  Dr. Phil gave Duane the opportunity to speak up and defend himself and he couldn't!  He couldn't because there is no defending himself.  Dr. Phil always is fair and he was fair in their discussion.  It is obvious to me that Dr. Phil knows what Amber needs to do and I know Amber knows what she needs to do and I know she will do it! 

I'm so happy to read your response and know that Amber has a friend like you.  I felt her pain when she spoke, and I know it sounds corny, but when she had her epiphany, I saw it and I related to her, and I know in that moment she confronted the truth, I just hope she hangs on to that moment, because if she does, and with friends like you to remind her, she will walk to the other side. Also I have to say, I do not know what show some of these people watched, how could anyone think her husband's behaviour is justified??!!  Please Amber, I heard you say you would prefer to raise your children under the same roof as their father, that you think it would be better for them.  I promise you, it will not.  I would hate to see your son grow up to think this behaviour is o.k., or your daughter to be at risk for an abusive relationship. ( I'm not sure if you have boys, girls, or both )  Amber, hang on to your truth, and to the friend I'm responding to, every girl in the world would be so lucky to have a friend like you.
 
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April 4, 2006, 4:31 pm PDT

04/04 "I Want My Ex Back"

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Well said!!  Dr. Phil gave Duane the opportunity to speak up and defend himself and he couldn't!  He couldn't because there is no defending himself.  Dr. Phil always is fair and he was fair in their discussion.  It is obvious to me that Dr. Phil knows what Amber needs to do and I know Amber knows what she needs to do and I know she will do it! 

I happen to know Duane well and I can tell you the only reason he did not "defend" himself is because he would have opened a whole can of worms and had to expose Amber's true self. He was man enough not to do that to her on national t.v. As you can see he is still in love with her and didn't want to hurt her. It is too bad Amber has to use that love to try to get everything she can get out of this man. She wants him to sign over the house? Why so she can have the last thing this man has left? She wants him to live with his parents? Why so she can get more of his money for alimony and child support? She wants to fix him? I actually think she broke him. Believe me Amber has gotten whatever she could and she will get what she can from her next  victim. 

 
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April 4, 2006, 7:31 pm PDT

Dirty Laundry

Quote From: mykidzmum2

Well said!!  Dr. Phil gave Duane the opportunity to speak up and defend himself and he couldn't!  He couldn't because there is no defending himself.  Dr. Phil always is fair and he was fair in their discussion.  It is obvious to me that Dr. Phil knows what Amber needs to do and I know Amber knows what she needs to do and I know she will do it! 

It amazes me how anyone would want to go on National Television and air their dirty laundry.  Amber initiated the Dr. Phil show charade and naturally it would lean on her side.  I laughed when I saw the list of things that Duane needed to do before she would take him back.  Sign the house over? Not talk to his male friends? And he has a problem with porn? but the tapes were for "them" and she was mad that he watched them by himself? Geezz.............something is wrong with that statement.  It all sounds pretty one sided.  And another thing..........whose husband has never given their wives a squeeze now and then?  If they haven't...........something is wrong.  It sounds as though Amber needs to take a look at the list as it was put on the screen on TV. I can't remember all of them but some of them showed that she wants to be the controller in this marriage, not an even partner.
 
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April 5, 2006, 7:40 pm PDT

Wow!

Quote From: mykidzmum2

Well said!!  Dr. Phil gave Duane the opportunity to speak up and defend himself and he couldn't!  He couldn't because there is no defending himself.  Dr. Phil always is fair and he was fair in their discussion.  It is obvious to me that Dr. Phil knows what Amber needs to do and I know Amber knows what she needs to do and I know she will do it! 

Was anyone at the taping of the Dr phil show?    Anyone? Thought so. There was more discussion, but for some reason it was edited. There is a reason its taped and then aired 2weeks later. Don't forget his fanbase, women. Don't ever make the woman look bad!
 
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July 5, 2006, 3:08 am PDT

there is not enough time

Quote From: mykidzmum2

Well said!!  Dr. Phil gave Duane the opportunity to speak up and defend himself and he couldn't!  He couldn't because there is no defending himself.  Dr. Phil always is fair and he was fair in their discussion.  It is obvious to me that Dr. Phil knows what Amber needs to do and I know Amber knows what she needs to do and I know she will do it! 

Hello,,there is not enough time to go over each mistake....10 yrs is a long time...Neither of them is perfect..Not Amber or Duane....We ALL make mistakes...SHE MADE MISTAKES AND HE MADE MISTAKES...She did not raise 3 wonderful children on her own..He is there to help her....They are wonderful KIDS because of there PARENTS....Both of them help...As for the taping,,you ask if anyone was at the show,,was anyone at there HOMES when this was being taped..YES,,,,, there was things taken OUT,,AMBER SAID THERE WAS.... as for paying for the DIVORCE,,, there parents HELPED THEM....AGAIN neither of them are perfect..EVERONE makes mistakes...DO YOU UNDERSTAND,,,EVERYONE....THOSE WITH GLASS HOMES SHOULD NOT THROW ROCKS... AND  I  NEVER PROMISED YOU A ROSE GARDEN....
 


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