Quote From: babyk1984Ok, so I dated a guy for 18 months & we were engaged to be married. One night after a verbal confrontation, and he saying some hurtful things, I broke off the engagement. Three weeks later he broke off the relationship. Two days later he asked if we could try again. He consistently tried for three months. Immediatley after the break up - I started hanging out with another guy, but soon realized I was not over my ex & broke that off. However, I will still not ready to move back into something he could so easily throw away. Well, when I did tell him I wanted to try he states it just wont work...what is that? Does that sound cruel to anyone else...any advice?
he is just playing with you and your feelings. all he wanted to do is be the one that would said no. b/c you broke it off first that was a bit of a blow to his tender ego- i know b/c i was in the same kind of thing. but he said no- first i felt very upset that he would just walk away. (i did not play with his feelings)-but i quikly figured out that once those words are out, you cant bring them back in. my advice-let him go- he did throw it away and its your job to keep it away. ther are so many other men out there that will love you good times and bad., and they wont play you like a puppet on a string.
