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April 5, 2006, 11:45 am PDT
04/05 Loving Dumb
Quote From: chattygirlHow's that for a subject? Been out of town and I specifically paid for a room for my laptop. Holiday Inn, last room because they're still repairing from Hurricane Rita. Very frustrating, my hookup to my laptop dumped me!!!!
Back to reality. From your original message, I really didn't know what gender you are, makes no difference. Whether you are male or female, whomever gave not even a peep or a "see ya, didn't work out", that would be the dumper. In my opinion, in order to learn and maybe get some kind of idea of why he/she was dumped, then the dumper with no explanation is immature or doesn't want to face it or possible even may not want to hurt the dumpee's feelings.
I've just always been a communicator. If it's going to hurt someones feelings, then maybe the dumper can think of something close to the truth in order that the dumpee can fix it for next time.
I tend to confuse people, hence my user name. It's starting to come around me about this issue but I like to point something out that you said. you said "the dumper with no explanation is immature or doesn't want to face it or possible even may not want to hurt the dumpee's feelings." I strongly think that the dumper already hurt the dumpee's feelings just by not talking and going off on them like some immature person.
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