A strong spirit is great is some circumstances ( work, determination , self-respect...) but when it comes to relationships what I look for in a girls spirit is understanding and support so that we work as a team for a common goal ( hapiness). When it comes to romance I beleive that a stong spirit has one stike against them, since a strong spirit usually likes it there way with little negociation to accomedate the other person in the relationship. Have an open spirit with the RIGHT guy and I'm shure things will start to change. Just one guys point of view.