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April 6, 2006, 6:59 am PDT
It All Boils Down To Respect
Quote From: toronto2xrSounds to me like you bought the typical line. If your friend wanted out of the marriage, he would have gotten out. You sound like your blaming the wife......why do people seem to think "love" justifies anything? My husband told his lover the same thing and it was all BS. He said he was staying for the kids and I hated sex! Our sex life was great and I treated him and his family like royalty. I think for him it was a fantasy world...no bills, no kids....and he enjoyed the variety. Well, the kids are gone but he is still here....on numerous occassions when I first found out I attempted to leave...but its hard to do when the man is crying and begging you to stay. Be glad he didn't leave her for you..you would be living her life. But please....stop bashing the spouse of a cheater...you don't ever know what goes on in someones house. Being someones lover and being someones spouse are very different....remember how it was with your husband when you first met...and how things change??? Your husband didn't respect you. He knew he could do anything he wanted and you would never leave him. And he was right. He's still there. Maybe you earned a little respect when he thought you were going to leave. Maybe not.
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