Replies to '07/21 Settle This'

Quote From: jettav

is a wonderful event and experience, I had my first at 37 and second at 39 and I wouldn't change a thing. Both were healthy and still are, I was also healthy and in good shape and I am a wonderful mother, my children are now 5 and 3, no regrets here.........I do not know how old this lady is who thinks her biological clock is ticking away, but don't stress over it! to the husband, I say, you have to understand the feelings of your wife for she is wired differently then you and you are not going to agree on issues, males and females are different in their thinking, remember, a womans nature is to be the nuturer and that is the way she was created, it is the nature of the husband to be the provider and I know you want what is best for your family.communicate and compromise and just do it, work together and know that there is no perfect time to have a baby, but you have to be confident and know that you will love and respect and care for your child and that they deserve to have the best parents around. If you walk together on this, you will be happy and so will your children..............My husband thought the same thing that HE was not ready for kids, but all that changed when he looked into the beautiful eyes of our beautiful little girl and when he found out I was pregnant with number two, he was over joyed.

Quote From: jettav

is a wonderful event and experience, I had my first at 37 and second at 39 and I wouldn't change a thing. Both were healthy and still are, I was also healthy and in good shape and I am a wonderful mother, my children are now 5 and 3, no regrets here.........I do not know how old this lady is who thinks her biological clock is ticking away, but don't stress over it! to the husband, I say, you have to understand the feelings of your wife for she is wired differently then you and you are not going to agree on issues, males and females are different in their thinking, remember, a womans nature is to be the nuturer and that is the way she was created, it is the nature of the husband to be the provider and I know you want what is best for your family.communicate and compromise and just do it, work together and know that there is no perfect time to have a baby, but you have to be confident and know that you will love and respect and care for your child and that they deserve to have the best parents around. If you walk together on this, you will be happy and so will your children..............My husband thought the same thing that HE was not ready for kids, but all that changed when he looked into the beautiful eyes of our beautiful little girl and when he found out I was pregnant with number two, he was over joyed.