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April 15, 2006, 1:19 pm PDT

Violence begets violence.

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You people maybe out of control.  Unless your child is diagonsosed with a mental or chemical disorder then you've made a huge mistake and for got to hit his ass in early childhood to instill healthy fear in him.  What is healty fear?  It;s like not wanting to dissapoint God.  It would hurt you or me to do something that we know would be displeasing to God  right?  Well that is healty fear and we should not want to dissapoint our parents as well.  Why? because we love them so much that it would hurt them.  Healty fear is also not doing stupid stuff that will harm us. 

 

 

Topics like this bring people like you out of the woodwork.  The "spare the rod spoil the child"  we're not spanking our kids enough crowd.  Often these same people claim to be speaking for God implying that God wants us to spank our children.  Society would be fabulous if we brought back to the good old days of spanking, paddling & hitting children with switches.  This IS violence & violence begets violence.  We don't teach a child that violence is wrong by modeling violence.  Spanking is a euphemism for hitting.  Just as it would NOT be okay for your boss to spank you it is NOT okay for you to spank any other human being, including your child. 
 
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April 15, 2006, 2:40 pm PDT

HANDS ARE TIED

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You people maybe out of control.  Unless your child is diagonsosed with a mental or chemical disorder then you've made a huge mistake and for got to hit his ass in early childhood to instill healthy fear in him.  What is healty fear?  It;s like not wanting to dissapoint God.  It would hurt you or me to do something that we know would be displeasing to God  right?  Well that is healty fear and we should not want to dissapoint our parents as well.  Why? because we love them so much that it would hurt them.  Healty fear is also not doing stupid stuff that will harm us. 

 

 

  I AM ONE OF THE PEOPLE THAT APPEARED ON THIS SHOW.

JUST FOR THE RECORD, HERE IN CANADA OUR LAWS ARE IF YOU HIT A CHILD THEN YOU ARE CHARGED WITH CHILD ABUSE. WHEN YOUR CHILD LEAVES HOME AT 14 YRS OLD THE POLICE WILL NOT GET INVOLVED AND THEY WILL NOT MAKE THE CHILD GO HOME.

HERE IN CANADA OUR LAWS HAVE TAKEN AWAY OUR CONTROL OF OUR CHILDREN BUT YET IF THEY DO SOMETHING THAT IS AGAINST THE LAW THEN WE ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THEM. GO FIGURE!! AS FAR AS IM CONCERNED, IF A CHILD RUNS AWAY BEFORE THE AGE OF 16 THEN THEY SHOULD BE BROUGHT BACK TO THE HOME IMMEDIATELY. BUT NO!!! OUR RIDICULOUS LAWS DON'T DO THAT.

THAT IS ONE TOOL THAT MY CHILD USES AGAINST ME BECAUSE SHE HAS SAID IF YOU TOUCH ME THEN I WILL CALL THE POLICE! OH AND YOU CANT MAKE ME COME HOME BECAUSE IM 14!

BUT LETS FACE IT, THERE ARE OTHER OPTIONS, PHYSICAL VIOLENCE IS NOT THE ANSWER!

I HAVE 2 OTHER CHILDREN WHO ARE PERFECTLY WELL BEHAVED AND RESPECTFUL 
 
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