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Quote From: sonmike

hello eveyone who takes the time to read this and hopefully i will receive good advice back! i am a 31 yr old woman, married for 3 yrs, no kids been with my husband (mike) for over 6. last july we separated for 5 months than i received a phone call on dec.4th from mike. he wanted to meet and see me so i said ok. my problem is that since we've been back together i've become 10 times worse. i still nag,bitch and i am insecure with everything. we always or should i say i always tend to bicker and complain about the most stupidest things. our arguments end up getting really loud and nothing gets resolved. mike never bitches, complains or even is jealous at all! i've never given up on our marriage i still loved him i've went against my family & friend's and always said to everyone i still love mike. during our separation i did get a lawyer i've asked for a legal sep but he never signed the papers! now, during our separation he did have another relationship with a younger girl it last 3 months, he broke of with her and 1 month later called me. i do beleive i have an insecurity problem and a trust issue but he was extremly remorcful and realized that he didn't want a divorce. it's now april, and i still bitch, argue, bicker etc he never does, i am very self-confident at work but in my marriage i am not and it's killing our marriage again!